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Well I don’t whole heartedly agree with your view point, which is quite frankly borderline sexist. You stipulate that you do not judge our reception or approach to porn, yet on several occasions you make comparaisons between the two genders, denigrating our way of watching porn ( for exemple saying that women have the iq and sensibility of a 12 year old horny child)
Porno is a personal affair, where men and women should’nt compete in the sense that porn’s purpose is to give ( more often than not) personal and selfish pleasure, it shouldn’t be like a competition or a battle of pitchfork links.

– A woman watches less porn when she is well fucked and satisfied in bed by her partner. We watch porn when we feel that we have emotionnal or sexual vacancies. When we feel that that we are badly fucked or fucked without conviction or love.
This obviously doesn’t flatter the man that one may be with. But ask all girls, porn is often a refuge to other problems more than an ordinary everyday 15 minute pleasure like that of young men who have become spunking robots to rapid and vacant internet porn.

-A woman is much less focused on visual imagery than men. She can pussy play in the dark, without anything, just by using her imagination. She doesn’t necessarily need a bukkake of ten men to be able to cum in her pants. Porn is only accessory to her pleasure. It can be enjoyed but she doesn’t need to spend hours on end looking for the gonzo porno of the month, and certainly doesn’t need her netvibes of pornsites.
She will enjoy an agressive porn video and even some of the more deviant sexual practices of course, and being naturally emotional she will transform the scene and adapt it in her mind ( no she doesn’t wait for her boyfriend to go to the supermarket and certainly does not think of him when she masturbates)…She will focus on smaller details like a spank, a slap, hair grabbing rather than looking at the bigger picture ( hence the unimportance of watching indie porn over mainstream porn)

– A woman has the advantage of having toys, and unlimited access to pussy playing. Toys, vegetables, a powerful shower, a vibrating washing machine, kitchen ustensils,remote controls, even a wii game pad, that can dish out multiple pleasures without the aid of porn.
We can have up to 8 or 10 orgasms by ourselves in one go ( and that beats watching any porn trust me), if the object we are playing with is efficient, and if our imagination is sufficiently open and functional.
The average male other than accelerating or slowing down his hand thrusts, to make the pleasure last, making his balls fill until they are in pain from the weight, and in order to spunk out as far as possible, (he can shamelessly use a doll or de « la gelée royale »), doesn’t have that many options, to be creative, or to change his masturbation habits.
He had better watch a decent porn movie, that stems away from mainstream productions in order to stimulate his imagination and answer his fantasies. It is the only creativity he can benefit from, mode solo.

– Finally the porn industry be it main stream, indie, gonzo, fake snuff, is an industry that continues to respond to mens demands and desires, and this is maybe because a womans mind and approach to sex is much more complicated and intricate (We don’t express our stress physically with a limp cock, yeah sometimes we are dry but it doesn’t stop men from screwing us, Infact we often cave in to a mens desires even if we are not sexually aroused. Infact we often feel like walking holes, which give a lot of women the impression that they not actually having real sex, but are fulfilling their role as an object of external sexual desire unrelated to their own)

Whenever a porn movie is directed by a woman, it becomes a sort of event a viral buzz, the « talk of the town », a « film that has to be watched ». It is scrutinized and disected, and often critisized or celebrated for being even more violent than a porn movie made by a man.
Porn directed by women should not be made systematically into an event , but normalised and socially accepted, and shouldn’t have to stand out from other films, as it is currently the case today. A woman directing an agressif porn movie is not some sort of societal progress…. it’s normal and should be seen as a common thing, Besides it obviously hasn’t put a stop to blatent sexist behaviour in and outside of the porn sphere.

I agree that as women we tend to stick to mainstream and often cheap and unimaginative amateur porn and you are right to point this out.
HOWEVER even if we were confronted to more esthetical pornos, indier trashier, with prettier girls, and more realistic..; the result on ourselves would remain the same.
The porn industry is above all a response to maculin fantasies, with a couple of vague ideas on what makes a woman tick and want to orgasm and those scenes are often rushed, badly filmed, approximative or just vulgur. Gonzo porn is the perfect exemple…. spontaneous and trashy it is, but it doesn’t at all relate to feminin fantasies, or what a woman herself would define as spontaneous.

– Finally, if a lot of women, including myself watch easy mainstream lesbian orgies on you porn( as you refered to it in your article), it’s because they see that gentleness, softness, without resorting necessarily to controlled sexual violence ( which is often how we fuck with our boyfriends lets face it all girls do enjoy a good spanking, anal spitting, but sometimes its nice to sway the other way in a gentler direction) can also be a source of pleasure, and can lead to enjoyable orgasms, given by a person of the same gender who knows better than anyone how to give it. Tribing is popular because it focuses on the pleasure felt by a woman when in contact with other skin. Its not about a dick pentrating a hole, but the joy felt by a woman on the contact of someone elses skin and that is what can give porno class and chic. It also reminds women of their primitive sexual experiences when they were 4 or 5 years old playing  » doctor » with their friend in their parents bedroom.

This fascination for lesbian porn or videos of masturbation doesn’t make a woman a lesbian, it does however bother men because of the absence of cock. it reminds men, at the end of the day, that yes we do sometimes find their dicks completly pointless, and unnecessary in our own access to sexual joy and satisfaction.

Your Article starts off with a very interesting general observation and can be funny at times and remains well written. You could however have just analysed womens approach to sex without comparing them to men,and without making them feel that they have a star acadamy and nouvelle star culture and approach to porn and sex( ie: you are suggesting that we are muttons of the sexual subculture compared to you who enjoy the refined « proust or Baudelaire » version of porn).

Throughout the article, you verge onto a cynical approach as to how women perceive and react to porn. The sexist and condescending suggestions and inuendos which provide the undertone of your text which lessens its quality, permeates your article with a judgement on women that you obviously had even before writing your « observations ».
Unfortunatly this is just another reminder of how men are far from understanding womens pleasures, desires and anatomy( especially men before their 30’s which this blog literally reeks of). This text goes on to show how it is not our fault if we are pornographically uneducated, but the fault of a film industry that hasn’t yet understood or managed to make money out of womens sexual satisfaction, a satisfaction which remains today badly handled and intricate.

As they say, « we prefer toys before watching oiled up porn boys »